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Confessions of a Frustrated Fashion Blogger

Confessions of a Frustrated Fashion Blogger

I have been blogging for quite some time now, and I have written almost anything, from my prejudiced thoughts on how men really are, to dating, about my journey from being a “battered gf” and a psychologically and spiritually broken woman to empowering myself. I even...

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Drama Culture: The Emotional Filipino

Drama Culture: The Emotional Filipino

Life is a big soap opera, in the eyes of the Filipinos, so to speak. It's so amazing to find a non-Filipino fall in love with my country. ( I mean, there are plenty of my fellow Filipinos who have fallen out of love with our country.) I stumbled upon Nathan Allen's...

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The Many Faces of Lent: Finding The Good in Good Friday

The Many Faces of Lent: Finding The Good in Good Friday

Lent is a very big celebration for us Catholic Christians because this is the commemoration of the passion of Jesus, His death and resurrection. Throughout the Philippines, we may have different ways of celebrating or commemorating Lent, but the message is still the...

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The Many Faces of Lent: Finding The Good in Good Friday

The Many Faces of Lent: Finding The Good in Good Friday

Lent is a very big celebration for us Catholic Christians because this is the commemoration of the passion of Jesus, His death and resurrection. Throughout the Philippines, we may have different ways of celebrating or commemorating Lent, but the message is still the...

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To Forgive Is To Be Free

To Forgive Is To Be Free

In connection to my previous post about letting go, I think that one of the ways that we can let go is to forgive. I have written so much about forgiveness, because I believe, based on my personal experience, that unless we forgive, we lose too much. But forgiving is...

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The Fear of Letting Go

The Fear of Letting Go

Lent is over. So I am back to blogging. But what I would like to blog about are my experiences in attending the life-changing Let Go Recollection which I religiously attended for three days.  If everything else in our life is not going in the direction that we...

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Just Wear the Dress (Bringing Out the Eve in Me)

Just Wear the Dress (Bringing Out the Eve in Me)

One of my frustrations is being a fashionista, that is, in the sense of always trying to go with what’s “in” in the fashion industry.  I have tried to be one, at some point, but I really thought and felt deep down, that it really wasn’t me. I just didn’t have the...

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Life and Death

Life and Death

A note before you start — this piece mentions suicide and a period when I was in a very bad way. If that's not something you can hold today, please skip it; there'll be another post. If you're struggling right now, the NCMH Crisis Hotline is 1553 (free, any landline)...

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Pushed to the Limit

Pushed to the Limit

What would you do when finally the dream that you have for so long in your heart come true? Would you not spend all of your resources and efforts in sharing your happiness with the people whom you shared your life with through laughter and tears?   People have...

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A Brand New Me for 2014

A Brand New Me for 2014

New Life, New Me The year has ended, and once more, we put our pens (or our laptops for that matter) and try to write down the goals we want to set for the new year. As I said in my New Year’s post last year, I am not the type who writes down goals. Not really in that...

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Finding Purpose Among the Ruins

Finding Purpose Among the Ruins

I have drafted this post a week after I left Tacloban for Manila post-Haiyan. But I just didn’t really had the urgency to post this, maybe I was just waiting for the right time. I realized, this is the perfect time to post this, as this is about finding a purpose or...

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Gone But Never Forgotten

Gone But Never Forgotten

“Sometimes, the Lord just takes blessed people because they've filled their purpose early. Everyone plays their own song. They sing their story to the world and leave behind a melody of memories. Sometimes... their song is cut short and ends too early. But that...

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