This post was originally published in my other blog A Day in the Life of Anne on August 25, 2013.
Deepak Chopra said in one of his
videos,” ..to manifest your soulmate, you have to know what qualities
you want for your soul mate. Become those qualities and the soul mate
will follow…” something to that effect. It is really like being the
person you want to attract.
I still believe in this.
Your thoughts should be on the
qualities you want not a certain person when you manifest your soul
mate. Might as well be ready with your incantations or magic spell if
you want to summon a certain person. That would be interfering with free
will, and love does not work that way.
Casting a spell on your man is the most desperate thing you can do to
get your man. It may work but it will always backfire. Would not it be
unfair for you if you know that your man is only sticking with you
because you put a spell on him.
Since this is my dream man, I am allowed to a bit of indulgence. So, allow me, I need to make another list. I can dream, can I?
This is my dream man, and if I have to listen to Deepak Chopra of
becoming the qualities that I want in a man, beside every quality is my
progress on working that particular quality.
My dream man:
a. should be have a nice singing voice. I love to sing, so finding
someone who can sing well too would be heaven. We will make sweet music
together. Or Karaoke nights! Lol! I want him to sing like this. (This won’t be a problem for me, as I can carry a tune.)
b. must be tall. I’m not putting down my race or what, but being born
to a country whose average height for men is somewhere between 5ft6in
to 5ft8in, I would definitely want to be with a man who would stand
taller than the rest.
I’ve always loved tall men, in fact my exes and crushes were tall, but i
ended up having long relationships with the averaged guy. Don’t know
why it happened. ( I may need to drink growth balls)
c. must be fit or athletic. It doesn’t matter if the only sport he
know is chess, as long as he keeps himself fit. I am not athletic too,
but I have so much energy. How can he keep up with me if he isn’t fit,
right? (I started running, next week I start a gym workout plan)
d. must be experienced in the romance department.And you know what else… (I have no problem in this area??)
e.must whip up a mean meal like Jamie Oliver. I love eating, my true
passion. What would be more blissful than having breakfast in bed with
your personal chef for dessert. (I cook, sometimes)
f. must love children, even not his own, most especially mine. (I’ve got my own)
g. has the usual qualities, responsible,generous, thoughtful, and financially stable. ( I’m working on this.)
So there, I can dream, can’t I?
xoxo,
Anne
