CATCHING  BUTTERFLIES

MARY ANNE LIM

Notes from a life still in progress

I’m not writing from the other side of any of it.

I’m Anne . I’ve been writing here since 2008 – through typhoon, a relationship that ended, years of raising my children mostly on my own, and a long stretch where I wasn’t okay and didn’t say so.

I’m writing from inside it, which is the only place I’ve ever been able to write from honestly. If you’re carrying something you haven’t named yet, you’re in the right place. 

 

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A day at the Beach, Stilts, Calatagan

  Booked for a day tour at Stilts. Yes, Stilts at Calatagan, Batangas, also known as the Maldives of the Philippines, or so they say, because of the beautiful floating cottages.It's great to getaway from all the busyness and hustle of our daily life. We were...

I Have a Dream : Birthday Musings

  It is just a few days after Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, because of a writing project, I needed to read on some of MLK Jr.'s speeches.  I was inspired about his "I have a Dream" speech and the anaphora which showed much of his passion. I am no MLKjr,...

The Lake House Made Me Believe in Love Again

   Watching the Lake House on HBO makes me want to believe in love again, and inspired me to write!I love watching movies, especially ones that are about love (and with Keanu in it). The Lake House is not a romcom, in fact, there's no part in that movie...

Day 5: Calling In for My Kind of Man

 This post was originally published in my other blog A Day in the Life of Anne on August 25, 2013. Deepak Chopra said in one of his videos,” ..to manifest your soulmate, you have to know what qualities you want for your soul mate. Become those qualities and the...

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The Archive · Catching Butterflies

The archive · 2008–2025

216 posts across seventeen years. 2013 and 2014 were the loud ones. Two years are empty and I’ve left them that way.

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BOOKS

The Quiet Powers

The Quiet Powers is a reflective memoir for women rebuilding after separation — especially mothers rediscovering who they are beyond the roles they once held.

In seasons marked by uncertainty, emotional exhaustion, and quiet grief, strength does not always arrive loudly. Sometimes it steadies. Sometimes it softens. Sometimes it simply helps you breathe again.

Through deeply personal reflection, Mary Anne T. Lim explores the inner shifts that carried her through life’s hardest chapters — stillness, acceptance, surrender, forgiveness, gratitude, love, and authenticity. This is not a dramatic story of triumph. It is a calm and honest journey toward peace within.

If you are rebuilding your life quietly — choosing steadiness over chaos and peace over performance — this book is a companion for your becoming.

— Anne

I also write for women rebuilding on their own, at She Thrives Solo.

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